Top 5 magical mindset tips for lasting love attraction
Do you wonder what the heck the best mindsets are to foster and encourage love? Being an energetic match to welcoming love into your life is essential! Today’s blog covers the top 5 Love Mindsets and some strategies on how to foster them…
What’s a love mindset? It’s a way of thinking that can either help you attract love, and thrive in a relationship, or, if it’s a destructive one - it can make it much harder. Why do you want magical mindsets rather than regular ones? A magical mindset is sending you more quickly, and more easily to what you want. For example ‘there are plenty more fish in the sea’ is well meaning and yes, positive, AND it can be super charged with love and magic like Mindset #1 listed below.
The top 5 -
Magical Love Mindset #1: I resonate with Love Abundance – this means I know there are many potential true loves out there for me. Not just ONE who may live on Mars!
I know you only WANT one of them, however thinking there is ONLY one is a mistake.
I think I first heard this from the fabulous Alison Armstrong – I recommend everybody check out her work. This concept is so true - there’s NOT just ONE for everyone! What a ridiculous pressure filled idea from modern culture that’s both thrust onto us and that we sometimes readily accept!
I’m not into it at all, because I know there are many potential partners out there for us. This is a much more abundant mindset and I definitely recommend bringing this one in.
We can have soul contracts, twin flames and even deep connection from a time long ago, potentially in a past life (these types of connections can be super challenging, too!). However, expecting there to be just one of them in your life time so loaded – it comes with a feeling that that your partner will be your everything and help get all of your needs met. It also comes with this idea that one person will feel just right. In my experience neither of those things are true. Well, the 2nd one can be true for sure but there’s bound to be moments with any human when things feel super shaky.
There’s been many times in my wonderful 25 year long relationship where I have thought ‘this is not right’. It’s usually during conflict where my brain goes straight to the drama of ‘it’s over!’. However, he’s an incredibly beautiful human - we most definitely have a deep connection that feels like it goes back to the beginning of time. He’s totally worth sticking those feelings out, as am I.
Knowing we can have that depth without putting the emphasis on this person being ‘the one’ is really useful. Undue pressure on relationship needs to be nipped in the bud! Same goes for the expression ‘he completes me’. No one completes me – I’m complete on my own!!! Then we come together as two separate but together whole beings like two little birdies chillin’ in the breeze.
Magical Love Mindset #2: People are essentially good and I also choose where to place my energy.
I can look for the best in peeps, give them the benefit of the doubt AND keep people at arm’s length when need be if we don't align. Looking for the difficult aspects of people is of course necessary especially when dating, and, at the same time, let’s hold that everyone is human and doing their absolute best with what resources they have available to them.
Granted, you might go on a date with someone who you absolutely know is not someone you want to spend time with intimately. And that’s totally okay – however dismissing potentially very beautiful humans due to not giving them a chance is a real issue. This is the dance of intuition, and perception – of discerning between knowing what you want and picking on anything out of fear.
People are essentially good and they’re doing their best – but that does not mean that we need to put up with any old rubbish! Dodgy, painful and weird comes from people’s traumas and their experience – their lives. We need to decide whether that person’s particular stuff is something we can live with, or not. Getting into any relationship with the desire to change someone is not a good idea because it will only end in tears – as it’s an impossible task!
Magical Love Mindset #3: I choose to make my life incredible now - not if and when I meet someone!
Yes! This is so important. Your life is an incredible masterpiece for you to add all the gorgeous touch ups and enjoy the journey of beautiful imperfection as you go. Waiting until you meet someone to finally live the life that you desire is not going to get you into the vibration needed to bring that person into your world. It’s time to choose you now.
One way to do this is to remain curious! Let life surprise you every day!
What lights you up? Do that!
Magical Love Mindset #4: I am a divine spark of wonderfulness and therefore I am a joyful addition to anyone's life.
Know you’re absolutely gorgeous, awesome and full of wonderful wonderfulness! Know how beautiful you are - you are the only person in this world expresses that particular essence. Your divine being can add so much joy and depth to another being’s life.
Magical Love Mindset #5: I am Love.
You are love. Isn’t love what we are all headed home to? It’s not always that easy because there’s so much in the way. So much running on the wheel of the rat race, so much striving and trying – so much coming through all of the bits and pieces that have brought us to this point in our lives. The nature spirits whisper how divine we are to us when we go out into rugged places, to the ocean, the mountains. But sometimes we forget, we forget that we are all essentially love.
Let’s remember.
In the comments below please share one way you can bring these magical mindsets top of mind in your life now. Bonus points when you come back and tell us how it went!
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