3 Keys to using the Law of Attraction for Love

When it comes to happiness and success, are you willing to do whatever it takes? Committing  FULLY and taking the action steps required to make it happen, followed by sweet surrender, is a recipe for success. This is what we will explore today…

I want to share with you how incredibly important it is for us to be proactive in creating the life that we want. If we wait for life to happen, waiting for love, waiting for a big break – it seems almost inevitable that a victim of circumstance is what we’ll become. It’s valid to surrender to what our destiny has in store for us - but the most powerful version of this practise is to do so after being powerfully proactive. I was given incredible examples of the beauty of this by my parents, this is why I am blessed with knowing that being a powerful action-taker works.

 My parents are all excellent examples of people who create the life they want. Here’s a little overview, focussing on only some aspects that highlight this.

My dad always reaches for his most expanded self. Part of his journey was that he suffered from alcohol addiction, until he did an incredible amount of inner work to transcend that. By inner work, I mean counselling, rebirthing, group work, yoga, martial arts - so many modalities. He is now an extremely skilled and resonant facilitator in some of these things and positively influences our culture with his work. He founded Tanaiki, a health and movement modality so he can share what he has alchemised along the way. This Art is gold and can restore health and vitality – pretty cool stuff! He is an incredible man and I’m so proud to be his daughter.

 Mum worked very hard to contribute to the world her whole life. As single mama, she took me for an extended trip overseas when I was a child - she worked full time and saved for years to achieve this. She has also had a dynamic academic career in Anthropology since then – she taught and advocated for human rights in her work, creating positive social change in Australia among health care professionals, students and academics. Mum expresses her joy, through singing and in other ways which is  loads of fun! I’m so lucky and proud to be her daughter, and have been raised by such an action-taking, intelligent and wonderful woman.

 My stepdad ran a national organisation with skill, love and integrity. As a boss and change maker he is passionate about  workers’ rights and human rights. He has a very loving heart, and luckily for us his skills and dedication have changed our country for the better by advocating and negotiating with local, state and federal government for people who need it. He is an example of someone who’s good at taking steady, consistent action. I’m so proud of him and blessed have him in my life.

 These examples of how taking powerful action works, have helped me immensely. When it took my partner and I several years to conceive our first baby, we did everything! We detoxed, green juiced, had acupuncture, moxibustion, went on a Chinese herbal protocol - I even stopped being vegetarian to fall pregnant!  When I ‘gave up’ and started to think about adoption our son rocked up! I know that I am very lucky and that destiny, fate, the Universe whatever you would like to call it played the most powerful hand in the blessings I have been gifted.

 Now let’s chat about the 3 keys to using the Law of Attraction to manifest Love:

Key One – Commitment

Energy follows energy - so when you want the Universe to support you, you need to show complete commitment, and be as dedicated and excited as you possibly can, taking action every step of the way. If my partner and I hadn’t been able to conceive naturally at that point I would have known I had done everything, absolutely EVERYTHING that I possibly could’ve done.

My heart goes out you if you wanted to become a parent but for whatever reason it didn’t happen. I honour and acknowledge your journey. Friends who have experienced similar nurture other kinds of babies in the world with their love. Their animals, gardens, books, businesses, positions at work and so on. They are often the aunty, uncle or friend that contribution is also such an important and valid gift. Thank you beautiful you!

Key Two – Proactivity

In 1-1 coaching, talks, workshops and retreats, I support people to find the right person to build their future with! One of the absolute most important things I impart is the power of being proactive, and then of course is the power of letting go. When we do both, success is inevitable - not always in the way we want the success to show up in our lives, but success nonetheless.

When you reach out to talk to me, you want results – you want to meet your life partner and have an amazing love connection. Here are some of the things we cover together. We look at your online presence and how resonant it is. By resonant I mean how much it shows your authentic self. Having a resonant profile make it less likely you waste time with someone who’s not on the same page. That’s so important. We make sure your calendar is open to welcoming somebody in to your life, make sure your home is a beautiful haven, and that a potential partner would also really enjoy spending time there.

We talk about your vision, exactly the kind of person you want to be with and the kind of life you want to create. We decide on the steps that you’re going to take in order to make it happen. We also work powerfully on changing beliefs that are not helpful and on living as authentically as possible now, before meeting potential partners.

Key Three - Surrender

This step is to Let Go and Let Flow – sweet surrender. It’s so important to do but before we do so it’s imperative to be as absolutely and completely proactive as we possibly can in order to make the surrender piece possible. It’s pretty hard to let go of something we really want!

There are so many other things we do together on the journey to love – what I am emphasising today the most is making a decision to be successful. This is the only way to go! There are many very wealthy and successful people in this world who talk about making a decision to be a millionaire, not hoping to be one. It is the exact same philosophy in attracting lasting love. Don’t hope that you going to meet someone someday, make the decision go out and attract someone wonderful.

Today we have been on a journey which started with my own beginnings, and learning about the power of action takers. Then we went to my fertility journey and how action and sweet surrender supported us. Then we covered how I use these very same concepts in the work I do today. So - the idea here is clear, don’t hope you meet someone, decide to. Get committed, go out there to take amazing action, then relax in sweet surrender and welcome lasting love! ( You can totally invite me to the wedding. Lol  xx)

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