The magic of a good Vision…
Do you ever wonder about the magic and power of visualisation, and how to go about it in the most effective way, especially when it comes to Love?
Today’s blog is all about visualisation, and 5 steps going over some of the strategies that you might wish to use to develop it’s effectiveness when it comes to attracting the relationship, and partner that you want.
What is Visualisation?
I see it as using your creativity in order to have a clear, joy-filled vision for what you want, then using that vision as a regular anchor to attract what you want.
Before taking these steps, make sure you want what you want. “What, Shannon? Of course I do!” I hear you saying…..
We often let our desires wane in the face of sadness, disappointment, and loss - so notice how much you desire to attract your life partner and turn up the volume on that desire. Doing this is in no way intended to invalidate what you have been through. And, it’s an important step along the journey.
Then, do these steps:
1. First, be totally clear on exactly what you want.
What kind of person do you want to attract into your life? Do you know what kind of lifestyle they would lead – and what values they would have? Think about your own lifestyle choices and values. What about qualities? What qualities would really light you up in a partner, and what qualities do you want to bring to the relationship – what gifts do you have to share? Do you want to dial up the energy on those gifts now, as you journey towards meeting your love?
Which of these do you want to be similar to your partner’s, and which aspects would feel ok to be different?
Some of your hobbies might be things that you prefer to do on your own, or with friends. With some hobbies, you might feel they are an important aspect of your romantic life. Some people love bushwalking with their love, swimming or playing music, for example. There’s also how you choose to live your life – if you are passionate about natural living, for example, then it could be really important for you to choose someone who lives that way too.
2. Your list – why is this important?
Once you’ve decided on the kind of person you would resonate with – write your list. Many coaches and thought leaders in the attract love world talk about having a list. The reason we do this is that it gives you a tangible outline of what you are attracting, so, if your actions do not align with what you want, you can change them. Also, it is so that you have something to refer to when you want to become a vibrational match to it.
This does not mean a prescriptive list as in ‘he needs to be handsome and work as a painter’. Rather, this list is more about the qualities, values and lifestyle that you’ll really enjoy in your partner. Yes, decide and have things on your list at the same time as being open to the wonderful surprises the Divine has in store for you. Cultivate the thought ‘like this, or even better’ when it comes to what you have written.
3. Feel the feeling of the wishful fulfilled…
Once you have your list, look at it a couple of times a week and deeply consider what feelings having that person in your life is going to bring you. It’s paramount to bring those feelings into your present everyday reality. This is because that makes you a vibrational match to who and what you want to attract. For example, you may know that when you’re with your love, you want the relationship to bring you a feeling of being deeply involved in community because it gives you a sense of belonging. However, if you don’t have that in your life now, it’s not a vibrational match. It’s a great idea to set it up now, so that it the feeling and action becomes a reality now! You never know, you may meet your love at a charity event.
4. Enjoy your cake
Visualisation, and other law of attraction techniques work when we feel gratitude. Part of gratitude is taking pleasure and enjoyment in what we already have. To that end, how can we enjoy our lives as much as possible?
I like to talk about our lives as the most incredible cakes and our life partner arriving as the amazing, but not 100% necessary, icing.
If you think about your cake, then decide it contains amazing, rich, organic and delicious ingredients! For example, organic blueberries, superfoods like maca powder and raw cacao as well as the yummiest things ever, like maple syrup and other things you delight in. The idea is to see your cake as the very best you can make it with the highest quality ingredients ever – then, the icing on the cake is a bonus.
You are currently preparing to attract your icing, which is also made with love and incredible ingredients. Some people want cake with no icing which is perfect for them, however - if you’re looking for your beautiful life partner then you want your cake and your icing too. Let’s celebrate that creation!
This gorgeous gratitude from enjoying your cake is an essential key to the law of attraction. You are enjoying your cake with so much pleasure and also welcoming that wonderful icing and taking the steps to have that, too. Gratitude brings us more of what we love.
5. Notice and keep the good that has come before
In past relationships there were things that were incredibly challenging, and things that were beautiful and worked well. Most definitely work on, and release what was hard, we don’t need that going forward! It’s a great idea to notice the things that were wonderful and make a conscious choice to manifest more of that in your next partner.
Remember to book in for your free 30 minute consult through my website so that we can focus on freeing you up to implement visualization in its most powerful form.
In the comments below, let me know – what is one thing that you’re going to implement as a result of this post. Bonus points if you come back and tell us what difference it made!